I have a guava tree in my house. Last year, I intentionally decided to cut off some of the branches. All those branches were fruit-bearing branches but the fruit (guava) were always small in size and bad in shape. A year on, I got few fruits but very BIG Size and healthy. I got these wonderful fruits in its big size as a result of intentionally cutting off some branches (pruning).
To all the guys and ladies who are in a relationship and want their relationship to grow, I advise that you learn how to separate yourself from your numerous lady friends and boyfriends (detractors), so you can focus on the special one.
So many relationships don’t end up in marriage not because there is no love but becausehere is lack of attention.
We give almost all our time and efforts to our friends leaving the relationship dry and your partner starving for your attention and love.
Please, if you want to let your relationship grow and end in marriage, learn to intentionally spend less time with your lady friends and guys so your focus on your relationship and your partner. This is not to say, don’t befriend anyone or spend all your time with your partner, apply wisdom.
Say, Detach to Attach!