If your partner is just kind of rude once in a while, and always apologizes afterwards, that’s one thing. Everyone gets a little nasty sometimes, and even though it stinks, it happens. With Christ, you both can be better. But if he’s mean a lot and refuses to apologize for it, that’s not okay. Even if you really like him, you don’t need to stay in this relationship. You deserve someone who will treat you with respect and kindness.
There are some people when they are “not in the mood” they show less
concern.
A rude partner often forgets that you too have a right or say in the relationship. Sometimes they speak to you anyhow.
When they offend you it’s difficult for them to say, “Please I’m sorry I offended you”. Even when they say, they’ll just say “Sorry!”
A partner who is polite allows you to talk without interrupting. He or she allows you to have a say in the relationship. They show care.
Is your partner too mean?
Is he/she just kind of rude once in a while?
Does he/she genuinely hurt you very often?
Is your partner disrespectful to your parents?
Is this something that you would tell a friend not to deal with?
If so, be mature enough and talk to him/her about it. If it persists talk to someone, a counsellor or friend.
If nothing is getting better, or if things are getting worse, consider breaking up with him/her. As I’ve said, you deserve someone who will treats you with respect. If he/she can’t do that, and their attitude is really bothering you, cut them loose. End things!