Do background checks before committing to anyone in a relationship. Let the findings inform your decisions.

Find out what triggers the fire. Assess the relationship and yourselves to see what leads you into engaging in the sexual act. Eg: You may realise that being sad or lonely and seeking comfort from your partner is what pushes you to end up in bed.

The courtship stage as the serious stage of every relationship. At that stage, all the necessary questions must be asked to clear all doubts.

Learn how to separate yourself from your numerous lady friends and boyfriends (detractors), so you can focus on the special one.

Some people use their Ex, parents and other people as prototypes or models for assessing their partners.

 Be a Helper, together we can succeed!

In getting over an Ex or a breakup you need to retreat to recover.

Differences in character, bad habits etc. can cause one to lose affection for his/her partner. 

My boyfriend is always beating me anytime he’s angry with me

Learn to choose your battles wisely. It is not everything you are to engage in.