Should I find someone better than my Ex?

Stop wasting your time on getting someone better than your Ex. Marriage is not a contest.

You don’t enter a relationship or get married to shame your Ex. This is a common issue among the youth today and we have to tactically address it.
It is frustrating to spend all your energy and resources in finding an updated version of your Ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

If you do that, you are still not healed from the wounds he/she left you. In your mind, your Ex is your standard. And you will always be measuring other potential lovers with this your Ex which to me is dangerous.
It can eat away the joy in your relationship if you find one. It can later destroy your marriage since your spouse would have to live to meet the standard of your Ex boyfriend or girlfriend.

Find someone you love not someone your Ex will hate.

– Benjamin Baah Nketiah

Be in charge, don’t let your friends and your Exs’ run the show.